Saturday, December 27, 2008
Christmas Round #2
We went to our church's Christmas service at 10:30 and then came home and ate our Christmas Eve spread again and opened our gifts. It was so fun to watch Ella Ann tear into her gifts and want to get out every single thing she got immediately and play with it! We tried to take our time, though, to make the occasion last a little longer. I think her favorite gifts were a bouncing ball with a handle for her to ride on across our house, rooms for her dollhouse along with the family's van, a Bilibo (can't really describe what that is), and her Tinkerbell costume.....oh and of course more Baby Legs!
That evening Mom and I prepared our usual Christmas dinner and it was fantastic! IT was so nice to have everything the same, as it should be, on Christmas even though we were not at my parent's house like usual. My parents did everything they could, as did I, to make sure it stayed the same. Ella Ann crashed early that evening since she didn't have a nap and so did the rest of us.
We just hung out and played at our house on Friday and went out for pizza that night....no more leftovers please! My Mom and Dad left Saturday morning after stopping by our house to say goodbye and visit for a little bit. It all passed so fast and we were sorry to see them leave but we know they could be back in a matter of hours or days!!! Thank you again, Mom and Dad, for a wonderful Christmas!
Again, I took a ton of pictures so HERE they are!
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
A First
Waiting oh-so patiently for Megan to get the icing ready.
So proud of the award-winning gingerbread house!
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Weekly Wrap Up
This week was pretty busy which seems to be the case every single week since Halloween for us! I cannot believe Christmas is THIS week! That also means our little baby will be here soon as well! Yeay! I'm tired of waiting, tired of being fatigued (which I know that's not going to go away even after the baby's born!), tired of pregnancy pains, and tired of not being able to squeeze Ella Ann while she sits on my lap because I have a huge belly in the way! Okay, enough "me" complaints and on with our weekly update! Ella Ann finished up preschool this week until next year. I wanted to really end the semester on a good note since next time I take her I will probably have her brother which will make it even harder for her to part with me. I actually tried the carpool line this week at drop off and it went amazingly well. I was happy about that because that's how I plan to drop her off once this baby gets here because I'm certainly not hauling him inside! Unfortunately, though, we didn't get to end on a happy note. Spencer met me at her school on Wednesday morning to watch her in their Christmas program. I knew they had been prepping for this since Thanksgiving because Ella Ann has been singing all the songs. Well as soon as her class paraded into the room and she spotted Spencer and I she completely lost it and sat on the front row and cried until her teacher brought me to her. Yup, she was the first kid to break down....but not the only one! I coerced her back up on stage with the promise that I would sit in front of her. She still didn't utter a word to a single song but sat their giving everyone the hairy eyeball. It was just lovely. Her teachers told me afterward that she was having a bad day because she kept asking for her "new animal." I stopped allowing her to take her brown horsey to school a few weeks ago and it had been smooth sailing ever since so when I was told there was an animal I immediately asked, "What new animal?" Her teacher pointed to her backpack and what do I see?? Ohh her beloved guinea pig's rear end sticking out of her backpack! She snuck that thing in! I couldn't believe she did that! That's why she had had such a bad day because she knew the guinea pig was there but her teachers wouldn't let her have it. Arghhhh! I guess I'm going to have to pat her down before releasing her from my car at school from now on!! ha!
Ella Ann has recently started dressing up in costumes....VERY often. She wears her tutu that the Evans' got her for Christmas each day. I have given in and let her wear it when we run errands. She also decided that she wants to be Minnie Mouse (her Halloween costume from a year ago) the past 2 days. I let her wear it to Kroger, Trader Joe's, and Target yesterday and to my surprise it made a lot of people smile! One woman wanted to take a picture of her! I always get a kick out of a kid I see out and about wearing a silly costume in the middle of the summer or something but to have my own child do it is a different story. It does make you laugh and can brighten your day if you're having a bad one so maybe Ella Ann is spreading some holiday cheer! :) Her Baby Legs are also an item of clothing that she refuses to take off. They are not tights but are leggings with no waist or feet. She wants to wear them every day so this week I have let her wear them often...thank goodness my parents are giving her more for Christmas, along with some Disney costumes! It's been an interesting fashion week in our household!
On Friday morning one of our friends was hosting a birthday party for Jesus. Her daughter, Anna-Kate, is one of Ella Ann's buddies. We had such a good time! Janelle, Anna-Kate's Mom, read the Christmas story before the kids made a craft, ate lunch, sang "Happy Birthday" to Jesus, ate birthday cake and decorated cookies. It was really fun for everyone! Spencer and I have been trying really hard to put Santa on the back burner and focus on the true meaning of Christmas and Ella Ann has really gotten into it. In fact after bath time this week Spencer had wrapped up Ella Ann in her big towel and as he was carrying her back to her bedroom she looked at him and said, "I'm Baby Jesus." She is so funny!
Kane, Jana and Mara Kate came over Saturday night to eat pizza and play the new Wii games we received from the Jensens last weekend. We had a blast together! We got Mario Kart, which is a racing game, and the steering wheels to go with it so it really feels like your driving. We competed against each other and was really fun! The boys also played a couple of other games while Jana and I chatted, of course! The girls played Wii as well and Mara Kate loved it. She was way more interested in watching the adults play Wii than play baby dolls with Ella Ann! hahahahaa!
This morning the 3 of us went to church and then hit Starbucks afterward. Ella Ann has now started making coffee in her little kitchen each morning while I sit on the couch and drink mine. I predict she's going to develop a love of coffee too early in life!
The two of us went over to Jana's on Wednesday afternoon and I told Ella Ann she could pick out what she wanted to wear. This is what she looked like.....
Ella Ann listening to the story while kissing Anna-Kate's baby doll.
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
A New Driver In the Family
Ella Ann, my little three-year-old smarty pants, has become the newest want-to-be driver in our family. Every time we are in the car she has no problem telling me how to drive. "Mommy, you stop at red lights, go at green lights, and slooooooow down at orange lights, okay?" Here is our conversation on our way to school Monday morning:
EA: "Mommy!!! You CAN'T turn on red lights!!!!"
Me: "Ella Ann, I can turn right on red it's okay."
EA: "NO YOU CAN'T!!!!" "IT'S RED NOT GREEN!" "YOU CAN ONLY GO ON GREEN MOMMY!!!"
Me: "YES, I can turn right on red!" "I KNOW how to drive Ella Ann!"
EA: "No you don't!" "You can ONLY go on green!" "Don't do that Mommy!" "You have to be careful!"
Me: "Okay Ella Ann you are right." "Next time you can drive us to school."
EA: "Okay!"
Yes, I was arguing with her on the rules of the road! Sometimes I just like to argue back to see what she'll say....often I'm glad I do because it's usually pretty funny!
Before we left for school today I grabbed a big oats container out of our recycling containers that were outside for pickup this morning. I forgot I wanted to keep it to make a "I'm thankful" drop bin so we can, throughout the year, write on a strip of construction paper what we are thankful for at a particular moment or day and then read them all at Thanksgiving next year and make a paper chain out of it. I mindlessly grab the container and throw it in the car to take back inside when I get home. Well, as I'm driving along I look over at the oats container only to see a big slug working it's way out!!! I scream, of course! Ella Ann starts yelling, "WHAT? WHAT?" I tell her what it is and start laughing and pick up the container to show the slug to Ella Ann, who then flips out and wants it out of her face immediately! I just think it will stay in the container (it was going back in) while we are in the car so I just tell myself I'll throw it away when I get home. Well it does not. I look over and now it's trying to get on my purse so I start screaming again and I look back at Ella Ann and she's got her legs and her arms curled up as tight as they can possibly get against herself in the car seat (as if it's going to jump to the back seat) and she starts yelling, 'GET IT OUT! GET IT OUT MOMMY! NOW!!!!" I wheel the car into a shopping center and get rid of that slug asap! Ahhhh....gotta love interesting mornings to start your day off right! :)
One more thing, Jana took this picture of the girls Sunday night at our church's Christmas cantata service. I stole it off her blog to post on mine because it was too cute! They are wearing their matching green bows!
Sunday, December 14, 2008
Christmas Round #1
Craig and Kasey arrived early on Saturday so we prepared a big lunch with lots of good appetizers and after that it was time to open presents! Carter was about to bust at the seams he was so ready to open his presents that said "C-A-R-T-E-R" on them! He hunted for his gifts the night before and knew where they all were when it was time to open them! We all took turns opening our gifts (youngest to oldest so Baby Boy Jensen was the first to go each round!) and it was over before we knew it. Everyone got lots of wonderful things, especially the kids (too much) and it was fun to watch them play with all their new stuff. Ella Ann got a purple and pink tutu from her cousins and she kept it on most of the afternoon (played football toss in it) and has had it on all day today! She also got a couple of games, puzzles, books, rooms for her dollhouse and clothes. All stuff she loves!
We had our big Christmas dinner that evening and we all enjoyed the good food....except for Spencer. :( Craig and Kasey spent the night with us last night and then everyone left this morning. Ella Ann was sad to see the festivities come to an end and everyone go home, but it all begins again next week when my parents come down for our Christmas with them! Thank you Gary, Gayla, Zach, Mandy, Carter, Seth, Craig, and Kasey for making the long trip down here, spending the weekend with us and for all the wonderful gifts and food you brought! We are very thankful for each of you!
I took a lot of pictures so click HERE to view them.
Tuesday, December 09, 2008
Silent Night
We have really enjoyed singing Christmas songs with Ella Ann this month and I didn't realize how much she was paying attention until she sung "Silent Night" in it's entirety the other day in the car! I always sing this to her at night in bed and she's always sucking her thumb so she doesn't sing along. This really reminded me that she IS paying attention and IS listening to me (most of the time) so that has made me realize I need to be very careful what I talk about in front of her and to make sure I talk about important things to her, like the birth of our Lord this holiday season. My oh-so-wonderful (and very crafty) best friend, Jana, has helped out in that department by making our family an Advent Tree and each night we have enjoyed reading scripture and putting on a new piece on our Tree. It is wonderful to think that this will be a part of our family forever and we will always remember the Barker's each Christmas because of it. I will take a picture of it when it is completed on Christmas Day and post it on the blog. We love it! Thanks again Jana!!
Okay, so I did manage to catch Ella Ann on video singing "Silent Night" tonight with her babies. She left out a verse, but it is still a memorable video!
Can you tell she was born in the south at all??? :) So precious!
Friday, December 05, 2008
Sweet Suprise
My very sweet husband surprised me last night and took me to The High Museum to see The Atlanta Symphony Orchestra perform "Handel's Messiah." I knew about the date itself because it was my birthday present, but I didn't know what we would be doing. Spencer just told me to dress up, which was not hard for me because I miss getting all dolled up for a night out so I was all about that! Fortunately my dear friend, Megan, has given me all her beautiful maternity clothes to wear during my pregnancy so that is why I have such a pretty dress on...I can't take credit for it! :)
Jana came over at 7 to keep Ella Ann while we went out. I figured out that we were going to The High when we started getting closer but I still didn't know what was there until we walked inside. The ASO is only performing "Handel's Messiah" 2 times this week and that's it for the entire year, so I was thrilled to be one of the lucky few that got to experience it! It was amazing! Such a moving experience! The theater was really pretty and decked out for Christmas and the choir and orchestra wore all black so it was very neat....not to mention the fact that the performance was outstanding and something I will never forget!!!!
Thank you, Spencer, for such a wonderful date and birthday gift! I really enjoyed our time together last night.
Oh and on a hilarious side note..Ella Ann fell totally IN the toilet today! Her potty seat shifted on her and fell off the toilet as she was trying to sit down so down she went! I was in the other room and heard her scream bloody murder so I went running in there to find her literally climbing out of it! Her whole back and bottom were soaked! Classic.
Saturday, November 29, 2008
Thanksgiving
On Thanksgiving day we watched the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade and had a spread of appetizers and sandwiches to snack on before our big meal that evening. Spencer got home from work around noon so he was able to enjoy the rest of the day with us. It was a beautiful day so we all got outside and walked around the neighborhood and enjoyed the peace and quiet, which is rare!! We went to our Thanksgiving feast at Maggiano's at 5:30. This is the same restaurant we went to for Thanksgiving the week after Ella Ann was born and we knew we would be eating a fabulous meal so we didn't want to risk going to a new place! The food was SO good and we all stuffed ourselves silly, especially me! The restaurant was beyond packed and they had a great musician playing music while we ate. It was so nice and relaxing! Ella Ann was very excited to eat turkey and pumpkin pie, which I know doesn't sound like her at all but each time we've been to Kroger over the last week they are sampling these two foods and Ella Ann has scarfed them down like mad! In fact, when we sat down to eat our lunch that day she asked me, "Where's the pumpkin pie?" Unfortunately the only dessert that was "pumpkiny" at Maggiano's was a pumpkin praline cheesecake which she couldn't touch because of the nuts so she had a heaping mound of vanilla ice cream and she was thrilled with that. Oh and she didn't even try a bite of the turkey at dinner....figures!
On Black Friday Mom, Ella Ann, and I did a little bit of shopping in our neighborhood and went to the mall that afternoon. Surprisingly the mall was very manageable, as was the parking and drive to get to and from. I was pleased! Spencer and Dad hung out at a sports bar in our neighborhood and enjoyed beer, wings, and football while we were gone. That evening we walked to one of Mom and I's favorite restaurants for half price crab and shrimp.
My parents left this morning and since Spencer has this weekend off we are making the most of it by getting our Christmas tree and decorating for the holiday. I love it!!!!! Thanks again, Mom and Dad, for a wonderful Thanksgiving! We really enjoyed spending the holiday with you both!
Ella Ann saw the marching bands at the Macy's parade and immediately put on her drum!
Playing in her dollhouse with Mimi. What a ham!
Enjoying our snacks on Thursday afternoon. Spencer gave me the pretty flowers for my birthday last week!
Cuddling with the grandparents...and Ella Ann's slippers!
Before leaving for Maggiano's.
Some family pictures.
Ella Ann is obsessed with playing Cootie since she received it for her birthday. Spencer and I play it with her at least 3-4 times every single day!! It's actually very fun to be able to play games as a family now after dinner.
I also had Spencer take a couple of pictures of me this morning so that you guys can see the belly progression! I'll be 35 weeks on Wednesday. I can't believe he'll be here so soon!!!!!!!
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
A Trip On the Pink Pig
After the excitement of the Pink Pig I took her into the mall to just look at Santa because I knew she wouldn't want to sit on his lap. I asked her if she did and she initally said no, but then the lady working for Santa told her she would get a candy cane after she told Santa what she wanted so she changed her mind, even though she had no clue what a candy cane was!! I didn't get her picture taken because I was afraid she would back out and it was way too expensive for that to happen. She did great and when Santa asked her what she wanted she said, "I don't know." Probably because we don't talk about Santa too much and she didn't know she was supposed to ask for something. I prompted her with "rooms for my dollhouse" so that's what she asked for. Boy was she thrilled with the reward of a candy cane! She was a complete red, sticky mess when it was over!
Ella Ann wouldn't stand next to the pig because she was afraid!
Monday, November 24, 2008
Update
On Friday night Jana and I went to the premiere of "Twilight", which we had bought tickets for two weeks prior!!! We both have read all 4 books in the series, are addicted to them like a drug, and counted down the days and hours until it was time to see the movie!!! Of course the entire theater was filled with teeny boppers and teenagers and Jana and I laughed at them throughout the whole movie. They squealed, screamed, ahhhhhed over Edward, and clapped....of course Jana and I tried to keep our composure as well when our beloved Edward made it on screen!! I'm telling you, if you have yet to read the books DO IT! They are such fun!
Saturday my friend, Andria, and her family had a housewarming party. Ella Ann and I arrived a bit early to help Andria set up since she wasn't feeling well and was expecting 50+ people at her house. It was a very fun party and Ella Ann was not too happy to leave since she got to play outside and all of her buddies were there!
Those were the highlights of our week and I won't bore you with explaining our usual activities! Today when I picked up Ella Ann at school they had her school pictures to give to me. I thought they wouldn't be that good since it is hard enough for me to get Ella Ann to smile for a picture, let alone a complete stranger at school! However, they turned out so well and I was thrilled she smiled! As soon as I saw them I thought I was looking at Spencer's 3-year pictures! I know she looks like him but the picture seals the deal. I wish I had a scanner so I could upload it and show it to you all. People probably assume I am the nanny! Don't worry grandparents I have a picture for you! It was weird to be handed her school picture, I can't believe she is old enough to even have them...I nearly shed tears!! :)
Ella Ann is also into telling stories now. She is still obsessed with talking about our trip with my Mom this past spring to Savannah and Tybee Island. She will come to me and tell me all that she did at Tybee Island, including vomiting in the car on the way to Savannah (which was always "yesterday" according to Ella Ann). I will often get out her pail and shovels so she can pretend to dig in the sand that is apparently in our hallway. When I asked her who she played with today at school she ran through her list of little friends which included Adam. Here is our conversation: "Adam had red spots on his hands today." My response, "Why did he have red spots?" Ella Ann said, "Because he fell down." I ask, "Where did he fall down?" Ella Ann: "At Tybee Island." Oh that kid, she makes me laugh!
I promise to post pictures very soon! My parents are coming down on Wednesday for Thanksgiving so I'm sure I'll have more interesting things to write about! Happy Thanksgiving!
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Happy Birthday Ella Ann!!!
I know I always say how I cannot believe she's already 2 and now already 3, but I really mean it! She is growing up right underneath our noses and I need to slow down and take notice of her major milestones every once in a while and savor every day instead of rushing through it. She is such a sweet, funny, loving, compassionate, kind, and adorable (we're a little partial) girl and now that she is getting older these traits are becoming more prominent. She says the funniest things and is SUCH a little mommy already. She wants to do everything I do and mimics me all the time...that can be both good and bad! Often when she says something I think to myself how much it sounded like something I would say. Her teacher told me the other day at school when I picked her up that if they let Ella Ann have control of the class she would happily take it. At first I was a little freaked out that I have such a control freak on my hands (wonder where she got that??? hmmmmm), but then I realized that it can one day be a good thing and she is going to grow up and do fantastic things in this world in a leadership role. She is a blessing in our lives and the lives of our family and I am thankful I get to spend my days with her while she is young. I don't miss a thing....even the bad days!
Every day this week she has asked me, "Is today my birthday party? Can I wear my cupcake shirt?" So on Saturday when she woke up I could finally say, "Yes! Today IS your birthday party and you can wear your cupcake shirt!" I know a few days seems like an eternity to her!
Our family came down this weekend from Kentucky and Tennessee to celebrate with us on Saturday. Ella Ann was SO excited to have her loved ones here, as were Spencer and I! The grandparents arrived first and Zach, Mandy, Craig, Carter and Seth arrived early Saturday afternoon. Once they got here the party started. We had lots of good food and yummy strawberry cake with pink and blue icing (at Ella Ann's request). It was a perfect ewwy gooy pink cake fit for a sweet little girl.
Ella Ann received many wonderful gifts that I know she will enjoy for a long time! The best part for her was, I'm sure, running like mad around the house all day with Carter and Seth! They were fit to be tied to see one another! Carter was super excited to come to Ella Ann's birthday party!
Spencer and I were thrilled to have all of our family here at our house and look forward to hosting Christmas this year! Yeay! Thanks again to our families who did so much to make Ella Ann's birthday special and for traveling through maddening traffic jams to get here. THANK YOU from Ella Ann!
and Mimi.